Mistress Widow
Southampton's own Pro Domme (Dominatrix) Widow
Things About Widow
I am a Professional Bbw Dominatrix (Pro Domme)
Formly known as Miss Cherie Spikes.
Based in Southampton, Uk.
I am based in adult fetish play space (dungeon) which is fully equipped with plenty of delicious toys, cage bed with stocks, hoist, St Andrew's cross and plenty more. The Dungeon is called the Scarlet Chamber in Southampton uk.
I am 36 years old.
I have over 15 years + experience within the lifestyle.
I am Sadist Domme. Dress sense alt/grunge.
I love and enjoy luring my prey in my web.
Are you brave enough to play!
I do offer newbie sessions which are catered to newbies.
List a few of the kinks:
Full clothed female play
Impact play
Wax play
Spanking (OTK, floggers, paddles, canes, bare hand spanking with my signature move.
Temperature play
Pegging (only if i have decided to include this)
CBT
Sploshing
Humiliation
Forced Feminization
Degrading
Shibari (self-taught, beginner rigger)
Anal training
Ballbusting (barefoot, heels, boots) Body worship (clothed)
Bondage
Electro play
Face slapping
Foot fetish (barefoot, heels, boots, pedicure)
Golden shower
Knife play
Latex/leather worship
Pet play
Playful humiliation
Power Exchange
Sensation play
Sensory deprivation
Sensual domination
Slave training
Tickle torture
Edge play (choking and orgasm denial) and forced orgasms
Formly known as Miss Cherie Spikes.
Based in Southampton, Uk.
I am based in adult fetish play space (dungeon) which is fully equipped with plenty of delicious toys, cage bed with stocks, hoist, St Andrew's cross and plenty more. The Dungeon is called the Scarlet Chamber in Southampton uk.
I am 36 years old.
I have over 15 years + experience within the lifestyle.
I am Sadist Domme. Dress sense alt/grunge.
I love and enjoy luring my prey in my web.
Are you brave enough to play!
I do offer newbie sessions which are catered to newbies.
List a few of the kinks:
Full clothed female play
Impact play
Wax play
Spanking (OTK, floggers, paddles, canes, bare hand spanking with my signature move.
Temperature play
Pegging (only if i have decided to include this)
CBT
Sploshing
Humiliation
Forced Feminization
Degrading
Shibari (self-taught, beginner rigger)
Anal training
Ballbusting (barefoot, heels, boots) Body worship (clothed)
Bondage
Electro play
Face slapping
Foot fetish (barefoot, heels, boots, pedicure)
Golden shower
Knife play
Latex/leather worship
Pet play
Playful humiliation
Power Exchange
Sensation play
Sensory deprivation
Sensual domination
Slave training
Tickle torture
Edge play (choking and orgasm denial) and forced orgasms
Things to know
Your safety, well-being (emotional, physical and mental) is my top priority.
I use the standard traffic light system and NEVER aim to make you use your safe word (RED this not a goal).
I am trained in first aid Immediate Life Support(NHS), specially trained in all aspects in mental health including trauma . I can ensure you will always be safe with me.
I use the standard traffic light system and NEVER aim to make you use your safe word (RED this not a goal).
I am trained in first aid Immediate Life Support(NHS), specially trained in all aspects in mental health including trauma . I can ensure you will always be safe with me.
Lets turn your kink/fetishes fantasy
To a reality
Sesssion Experience
Medical Experience - Nurse Widow will ensure You well cleaned, by a gold shower, clean shaven/lice treatment (optional).
CPR by wand, the anal cavity will be check for hemorrhoids. Sounding will be carry out to your pathetic urethra.
Corporal - Wing commander Widow, will check your clothing is flat iron with no creases. Boot licking. Punishment you will be caned or punished to my desire.
Sadist - Mistress Widow loves, pushing your body towards it's limits. These sessions can involve breath play, blood play. Your wounds will be clean by lemon juice, white vinegar or alcohol.
Your body will bare my mark!
Sensory- Ideal for beginners and newbies. Sensory deprivation, blindfold, ear defenders, gagged, temperature play ( ice cubes/ wax) tickle with finger nails, vampire gloves or feathers. Followed with a oiled massage to relax them tense muscles.
Pup Trainer- every good pup deserves a treat. Alongs you are well behaved.
You will be crate (cage) trained. lead and muzzle (gag). Your tail will wing when you see me. Otherwise you will be sprayed. You will (speak) bark when instructed. You will lose all furniture privileges.
Whose that pokemon- it's Pikachu!
Puns aside. I love delivering Electro shocks. I am leatheral when i zap and zap you again. Watching your muscles tense like no tomorrow. I will giggle/crackle. While you receiveing electric currents cruising through your body.
Introduction to kink: you are new on the scene, wanting to explore your kink and fetishes, not sure where to start. Have no worries, I can help with that.
during your session we can disscuss and go through, some of the kinks and fetishes you like. Explore ones that you have an interest in. These sessions are designed to be slow. Check in regularly during the session, before and after. A tour of the dungeon and equipment as well as all delicious toys available. The session won't be based on certain kinks/fetishes.
CPR by wand, the anal cavity will be check for hemorrhoids. Sounding will be carry out to your pathetic urethra.
Corporal - Wing commander Widow, will check your clothing is flat iron with no creases. Boot licking. Punishment you will be caned or punished to my desire.
Sadist - Mistress Widow loves, pushing your body towards it's limits. These sessions can involve breath play, blood play. Your wounds will be clean by lemon juice, white vinegar or alcohol.
Your body will bare my mark!
Sensory- Ideal for beginners and newbies. Sensory deprivation, blindfold, ear defenders, gagged, temperature play ( ice cubes/ wax) tickle with finger nails, vampire gloves or feathers. Followed with a oiled massage to relax them tense muscles.
Pup Trainer- every good pup deserves a treat. Alongs you are well behaved.
You will be crate (cage) trained. lead and muzzle (gag). Your tail will wing when you see me. Otherwise you will be sprayed. You will (speak) bark when instructed. You will lose all furniture privileges.
Whose that pokemon- it's Pikachu!
Puns aside. I love delivering Electro shocks. I am leatheral when i zap and zap you again. Watching your muscles tense like no tomorrow. I will giggle/crackle. While you receiveing electric currents cruising through your body.
Introduction to kink: you are new on the scene, wanting to explore your kink and fetishes, not sure where to start. Have no worries, I can help with that.
during your session we can disscuss and go through, some of the kinks and fetishes you like. Explore ones that you have an interest in. These sessions are designed to be slow. Check in regularly during the session, before and after. A tour of the dungeon and equipment as well as all delicious toys available. The session won't be based on certain kinks/fetishes.
Dungeon Pricing
All Dungeon sessions will be at The Scarlet Chamber
No out calls!
Pricing for Dungeon/Tributes are Non Refundable
meets/sessions are charged at the hourly rate of £200 per hour plus dungeon fees - £40 for the first hour £20 for any additional hour after.
Slots will only be held for 48 hours when booking slots have been confirmed. No deposit, no session!
Dungeon fees are your booking's deposit. They are non negotiable. This is to confirm and secure your session/meet. If the deposit has not be paid. Then your slot will not be held.
2 hour slots plus more, half of the payment would be asked, to be paid as a deposit.
All remaining balance should be paid, on the day/1 hour before your session slot.
Full payments can be made in full, depending on preferences.
No out calls!
Pricing for Dungeon/Tributes are Non Refundable
meets/sessions are charged at the hourly rate of £200 per hour plus dungeon fees - £40 for the first hour £20 for any additional hour after.
Slots will only be held for 48 hours when booking slots have been confirmed. No deposit, no session!
Dungeon fees are your booking's deposit. They are non negotiable. This is to confirm and secure your session/meet. If the deposit has not be paid. Then your slot will not be held.
2 hour slots plus more, half of the payment would be asked, to be paid as a deposit.
All remaining balance should be paid, on the day/1 hour before your session slot.
Full payments can be made in full, depending on preferences.
Aftercare
Is highly important especially after an intensive scene/session or any session. BDSM scenes are like a a wave of adrenaline, trust and connection. But when that wave crashes, it can leave you feeling just "off" physically and mentally drained as your hormonal levels decrease. That can or will lead into Sub-Drop.
Aftercare refers to the process of providing emotional, psychological, and/or physical support to participants following BDSM activities. These activities can be mentally, emotionally, and/or physically intense, often leaving participants in need of comfort, reassurance, or physical tenderness.
Aftercare could be cuddles, massage, a drink, wrapped in blanket, snacks. Or something you are comfortable with after a scene/session.
Aftercare refers to the process of providing emotional, psychological, and/or physical support to participants following BDSM activities. These activities can be mentally, emotionally, and/or physically intense, often leaving participants in need of comfort, reassurance, or physical tenderness.
Aftercare could be cuddles, massage, a drink, wrapped in blanket, snacks. Or something you are comfortable with after a scene/session.
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Contact methods
My email address and contract number has been provided.
DO NOT call this will not be answered!
WhatsApp me or email Only
DO NOT call this will not be answered!
WhatsApp me or email Only
Contact
- The Scartlet Chamber
- 34A Bedford Pl, Southampton SO15 2DG
+44-7386222511 - Mistress Widow number - mistressblackw@gmail.com
- On subject of availability
Age Session type Aftercare Soft limits Hard limits Session length
My hard Limits
Anything involving animals Blackmail
Girlfriend experience
Intimate body worship
Scat play (farting yes)
Under the age of 18 years old
All sessions are CFNM fetishes only!
Race play
Incest
KeyHolding
£100 pm
You bring your own Chasity.You will book a 30 minute Dungeon session this is £120 which includes Dungeon fee.
The session is to for you fit your chastity after you have signed an agreement.
Your Chasity will be inspected.
You will hand over your keys over to me!
You will be given a task per week that you will complete.
Your tribute shall repeat on the 1st of each month.
If you wish to release yourself and end your agreement before the agreed time you will have a penalty that shall be paid before removal.Upon full removal & end of agreement you shall receive time with myself in the Dungeon.
For more information and further discussions. Get in touch.
You bring your own Chasity.You will book a 30 minute Dungeon session this is £120 which includes Dungeon fee.
The session is to for you fit your chastity after you have signed an agreement.
Your Chasity will be inspected.
You will hand over your keys over to me!
You will be given a task per week that you will complete.
Your tribute shall repeat on the 1st of each month.
If you wish to release yourself and end your agreement before the agreed time you will have a penalty that shall be paid before removal.Upon full removal & end of agreement you shall receive time with myself in the Dungeon.
For more information and further discussions. Get in touch.
Coming soon!
watch out for updates
currently in process of establishing my skills in the following kinks/play
Shibari i am a self taught (beginner Rigger)
currently in process of establishing my skills in the following kinks/play
- Needle play
- Fire play
- mummification
- Vacbeds
- Sounding
- Breathe play (not choking)
Shibari i am a self taught (beginner Rigger)
- wishlist for those who wish to buy me gifts for tribute. This is not a must.
F.A.Q
Who is Mistress Widow?
Mistress Widow is a professional dominatrix who specializes in creating tailored and consensual BDSM experiences.
Do i touch Mistress
Only when instructed. If you touch without consent or push boundaries. Your will recieve a warning.
Next your session will be ended. You will be asked to leave. Your session will not be refunded.
Next your session will be ended. You will be asked to leave. Your session will not be refunded.
Do you do double Domme sessions
Yes i do/multiple Domme sessions. There are additional prices. Which can be discussed.
Can i bring my own equipment
Yes within reason. Please let me know what you plan to bring. Before bringing.
Can i get a discount?
My tributes are non negotiable
Do you offer escort services?
No. CFNM fetishes only.
Why do you take a deposit?
Unfortunately in this industry does have time wasters. By securing your appointment with a deposit, I can be reasonably certain you are going to attend. It takes time and resources to plan sessions.
i however do expect my client to arrive on time.
i however do expect my client to arrive on time.
What is the importance of aftercare in BDSM?
Aftercare is an essential part of BDSM practices as it ensures the physical and emotional well-being of all participants after a session.
What is the purpose of a safeword during a session?
A safeword serves as a clear and unambiguous signal for stopping or adjusting the activity immediately to ensure comfort and safety for all participants.
